Every so often, I get some random comment or email about a post I wrote over 2 years ago concerning Asian boys. While some the feedback had to do with a further discussion of boys in general, a seemingly big chunk of it came from actual Asian boys who told me that they would never date a self-hating @#$% like myself anyway.
Well, fantastic, because I’m already dating an Asian boy at the moment (was dating him when I wrote the original post), and I’m not sure how he’d feel about me seeing other people. But I digress.
The thing is, I’m not sure where all this anger comes from, but it was exactly the male sentiment I initially pondered about—Asian men getting angry about Asian women who aren’t dating Asian men. So I figured, maybe they’re not reading the post clearly. Maybe I need to make an outline (a study guide, if you will) to reiterate.
Highlights:
* I didn’t date Asian boys before college because most all of the ones I was exposed to were gangbanging wannabes.
* I did date Asian boys in college because they were educated and were not gangbanging wannabes.
* I like all types of boys. There is no Third Law of Newton that states that Asian penises and Asian vaginas are undeniable magnets for each other, like some sort of pedigree purebred program. It’s okay to broaden the genetic pool a little.
* I date men based on compatibility, not on ethnicity. Insecurity is not compatible with me. Confidence is. Thinking that “white boys steal our women” is not confidence. That is insecurity. You is not Tarzan, and I is not Jane.
So please take your sexual frustrations elsewhere.